How SwingPal works
SwingPal is a structured four-step conversation. You answer privately — never as an anonymous couple in public.
1. Create a shared room
One of you creates the room and sends an invitation to your partner via link or QR.
2. Ready for swinging?
Both of you answer 10 questions individually about motivation, jealousy and safety. You get a compatibility report and talking points.
3. Boundary map
Mark green, yellow or red on each activity. See agreement and disagreement — without guessing.
4. Event and debrief
Agree on the most important rules before going out. Reflect privately afterwards. SwingPal Score shows your progress.
No public profile. No matching. You do the talking — we tidy the conversation.