For couples · 35–60

Talk safely about swinging.Together.

SwingPal is a quiet conversation coach for couples considering or exploring ethical non-monogamy. We give you structure, boundaries and reflection — not matching or messaging.

Private. Adult. No public profile.

Safety first

We build conversations around trust, boundaries and emotional safety.

Both of you answer privately

You answer individually. SwingPal compares and shows you a shared picture.

Boundary map

Green, yellow and red per activity. See where you agree and where you need to talk.

Debrief afterwards

Reflect together after an event. Your SwingPal Score shows your progress.

SwingPal is not a dating site.

No matching, no messaging, no events. Just the two of you — and a quiet coach.

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